Harassment and awkward utterances

Some people like when others regard them to be smart. Others want to hear complements about their good look. There are also people who react cautiously to flattery because they think that they are obliged to do something in return.

If a woman does not accept your compliment, it means that you have problems with communication. This conclusion is not far-fetched. This is a problem of many men nowadays. An awkward remark or joke is often considered as an offence. If a woman is offended she may turn to court. And many women do it.

What happened to men that they lost the skill of communication? By the way did they have this skill before? This is a disputable question. The matter is that throughout past centuries men didn't need to have profound skills to communicate with women because women were deprived of their rights. Everything was decided by men. They simply gave orders to women and nothing more. All communication between men and women was one-sided from men to women. Men weren't interested in women's thoughts, feelings and worries. Women couldn't plan their lives, as all aspects of their existence were determined by men. Despite this women always were more complex beings. They always had more sophisticated psychological structure of personality. Centuries of oppression didn't change them, on the contrary owing to prolonged suffering they became stronger and cleverer and began struggle for their rights. This struggle continues today. Women have already won over many of men's rights and go on doing it.

Look at what is happening. More and more women penetrate political, social and economical institutions, get leading positions in science and educational sphere. They mostly have higher level of IQ and common intellectual level, they acquire new skills quicker than men. Men feel the approach of a new era, where women will rule the world. Men can't hold their ground in this situation and watch over the events silently.

So, women are smart, strong and ready to fight for their own hand. They will no longer let men humiliate them, determine their present and their future. As you see, they now require more refined and sophisticated attitude to them. No more dirty jokes, no more humiliating utterances, no more oppression and mockeries. That's why if you want to talk to a modern woman you must learn many things. You must learn to talk eloquently, pay complements subtly, write love letters without mistakes, have your own unique style and so on. Yes, if to compare it with past times, it is now extremely difficult to communicate and interact with women. But, on the other hand, it is an additional incentive for self-development and self-discipline. It's a pity, but there still exist a minority of men who either don't understand that the new era has almost come, or can't stand it and try to preserve old wild rules at least at home or at work. Of course, it is for nothing. They would rather work on themselves than try to change the whole world and irreversible laws of its development.

To crown it all I would like to say to all men that women can still be tender, endearing and loving, but they will not allow anyone to harass them. Don't fight with them, you will finally lose in any case!